The Hearing Is Usually Simple — and Uplifting
Adoption finalization hearings are typically warm, low-stress events. If there are no objections and everything is in order, the judge’s questions will be straightforward and easy to answer.
Some typical questions for adoptive parents might include:
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What’s your name?
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How old are you?
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Are you married? To whom?
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How long have you been married?
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Who is the child being adopted?
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How long have you known them?
The court will also want to understand the relationship between the adopting parent and the child. The custodial parent may be asked whether they believe their spouse will be a good parent, and whether they understand that adoption is permanent. That means that even in the event of a divorce or death, the adoptive parent remains the child’s legal parent.
Children May Be Asked a Few Questions Too
If the child is old enough, the judge may speak with them directly. These questions are never designed to be intimidating — they’re simply meant to affirm the child’s understanding and wishes. For example:
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What do you think of your adoptive parent?
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Do you want them to adopt you?
There are no wrong answers. This part of the hearing is about honoring the family bond that already exists.
Thinking About a Stepparent Adoption?
If you’re exploring the idea of a stepparent adoption and want to know more about the process, we’re here to help. We can walk you through what’s involved, answer your questions, and help you understand what to expect at every step — including the final hearing.
This is a major milestone for your family. When you’re ready, we’re here to guide you through it.